Proverbs 32: 25-31NLV
(25 She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. 26 When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. 27 She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing from laziness.
28 Her children stand and bless her. Her husband praises her:
29 “There are many virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all!” 30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.
31 Reward her for all she has done. Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.)
Being accepted as a beautiful, strong, independent, or equal woman does not have to get attention by throwing a ( Hissy Fit). Society try’s to tell us everyday that we have to look and be a certain way to be excepted or successful. Today’s women often defines ourselves by what we think other expect from us. Especially our outward appearance, (you must be thin, you must wear this, you must have this piece of jewelry, you must have this hair color, you must have, the perfect job, you must be better than the opposite sex, you must have the perfect family, your house need to be the best decorated)…….. and the list goes on and on. Now this scripture does not mean that you can’t wear beautiful clothes, God loves beauty….just look at the beauty around you in the trees, flowers , mountains and look at yourself, there is a true beauty inside you. This doesn’t mean that you can’t be all that you can be ,…..yes you can become the president of a great nation and do remarkable things. God has made women strong and beautiful from the inside out. And yes he wants you to speak out he gives you wisdom and will lead you in the right direction. The enemy wants to keep you busy with all these wants you think you have to have……and guess what , that is taking time away from your family….but most of all it he takes away your ability to see what the Lord Jesus has for you.